Be, Do and Have!

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If you’re going through challenging life transitions or midlife change; or want to make a major transformation in your career, relationship, health, or life direction; or you just want to take your life to the next level; then keep reading!

The formula for making a positive change and living your best life is: Be, Do, Have. If we seek abundance, happiness, health, love or joy, we must be abundant, happy, loving, healthy and joyful in our thoughts and spirit. We can begin to make empowering changes and cultivate our spiritual prosperity, in all areas, by opening our hearts in appreciation.

Start an appreciation or gratitude journal today. Each evening, write down at least 5 things you appreciate having in your life or are grateful for. This simple practice will open your eyes to the abundance, happiness, health, love and joy of your world right now. It is time to start living your best life!

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5 Tips To Get Out Of Any Negative Rut!

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I’ve been talking to so many people lately who are feeling down or are stuck in a rut! Sometimes these feelings can lead to sadness, overwhelm, anxiety, depression or other negative emotions.

Often these negative ruts can make basic tasks like brushing your teeth or even getting out of bed extremely tough, and they can be physically, emotionally and mentally draining. During such times, the best thing one can do to find oneself and move forward on the personal development path, is to stay focused on feeling better.

Here are 5 simple tips to encourage and inspire yourself if you are stuck in a negative rut:

  1. Be kind to yourself – When you’re in a negative rut, the worst thing you can do is to judge or beat yourself up‼ So if you find yourself doing that, STOP IT‼ Just know it may take a little while for you to feel like your old self again. Some changes don’t  happen overnight, so be gentle with yourself, especially if you make mistakes! Treat yourself with love and patience… Remember you’re exactly where you need to be, and everything is always working out for YOU!
  2. Surround yourself with people – When stuck in a negative rut, all you may want to do is be alone and away from everyone, but this will only contribute more to your rut… Stop isolating yourself, and instead reach out to your friends and family. Having people around to give you a helping hand or just talk to is very important to getting back on your feet faster! Remember no matter what you’re going through, you’re never alone.
  3. Move your body - Lying in bed all day or becoming a couch potato isn’t going to do anything other than reinforce you negative feelings.  Make yourself to get up and move around, even if it’s for few short minutes. Go for a walk, dance to your favorite music, stretch your body, take slow deep breathes, do jumping jacks, etc. Just do something that moves your body! This is the quickest way to change your focus and improve your mood!
  4. Help someone else – Take the focus off of yourself and your problems, and help someone else who has less than you or feels worse than you! Volunteer an hour a week! This is a great way to  start feeling a sense of connection, contribution,  and appreciation for what you have.
  5. Create an action plan – Start very small and come up with a daily action plan. When you wake up each morning, make a list things you choose to accomplish that day. Then at night, look at your list and cross off everything you did. This will not only move you forward, but will give you a sense of control over your own life.

With much love and appreciation ~ Farah

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Turn Negatives Into Positives!

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Life transformation starts with you choosing it! Know that you are exactly where you’re supposed to be, and obstacles, challenges or failures are merely steps in getting you closer to your successes!

Find little things that make you HAPPY! Start living your best life by turning your negatives into positives! Focus only on what you want to have, feel and create… This is the first step in making an empowering change!

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With much love & appreciation ~ Farah

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Negative Things Only Have Power When We React To Them!

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A couple of weeks ago I pulled a muscle in my lower back and had to bring all my physical activities to a halt‼ I mean no more going the gym, lifting weights, taking zumba classes, doing yoga, or hiking!! How was I going to de-stress and spend my free time?? Not to mention I didn’t want to gain weight by just sitting/laying on the couch‼

I kept thinking how horrible this was and how it couldn’t have happen at a worst time… I found myself getting down and depressed, because I couldn’t move much and do any of the things I enjoyed… My back affected me so much that I stopped meditating in the mornings, because I couldn’t find a comfortable position to sit or lie down… I stopped doing my morning rituals like reading my vision, saying my affirmations, and reading inspirational material… I isolated myself from my friends because not only was I not feeling well, but I had already gained a couple of extra pounds (which I’m sure no one noticed but me), and didn’t want anyone to see me!

I found myself  being so angry at my back for not allowing me to be active, and kept wondering when the heck it was going to get better, so I could go back to “normal”!!

Then several days ago, I remembered what I usually tell my clients whenever they’re going through something negative: negative things only have power when we react to them‼

Wholly cow!‼ I had reacted so intensely to the pain in my lower back, and not being able to do any physical activities, that I made things worse and stopped doing other things that fed my spirit, like meditating!

All that I had happened was I pulled a muscle in my lower back… That was it!! All the other stories I was telling myself were just that… Stories!! But the way I was acting was as if my life was over and I was never going to do anything fun or enjoyable ever again (which contributed more to my stress level, sadness and anger!)

The moment I reminded myself of this, I began surrendering to the fact that I had to rest my body and let my back heal for a few weeks… I let go of my negative thoughts: I’ll gain weight; I’ll be more stressed; I won’t have any fun; and I’m a prisoner in my own home, etc.

… Then something miraculous (but not surprising) happened: my back started to feel better that day, and the next day and the day after that…

I ended up letting my back heal and didn’t do any physical activities for two whole weeks! And guess what… The world did not come to an end‼!

No matter what’s going on in your life, remember this: negative things only have power when we react to them! Surrender to “what is” and stop resisting it… Your “power” is in the internal reaction to the external events and circumstances!

Start living your best life by stepping into you power!  Know that the negative things will pass too, and everything always works out for YOU! This is where life transformations happen!

Let me know what you think by either leaving a comment or emailing me at: farahr@risinglight.com

With much love and appreciation ~ Farah

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Never Give Up on your Dreams!

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No matter what’s going on in your life, always have a dream (big or small) that you’re moving towards! Remember it’s never too late to create new dreams, or reignite old ones! Listen to the voice of your heart; focus on what you want to feel, have and create; and never give up!

With much love and appreciation ~ Farah

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Health and Happiness

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As I was browsing the web looking for interesting material, I came across this great article about happiness and our well being. It listed 20 things we could do to feel happier in our lives! Most of the items on the list were no surprise to me, since I’ve been teaching and talking about them for years, like: writing down your blessings, listening to you favorite music, laughing a lot, doing something nice for someone else, smiling, and mediating/praying. But there were a few on the list that I did not expect, but made total sense, like: identifying with your heritage, making more money than your peers, and marrying someone who is happy!

Read this list of 20 (below), pick 5 that you know you can easily commit to, and start living your best life by doing them! Let me know what you think…

With much love and appreciation ~ Farah

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Here’s  the link to the original article: http://www.time.com/time/specials/packages/completelist/0,29569,1631176,00.html

  1. Count Your Blessings
  2. Hear the Music
  3. Snog. Canoodle. Get It On.
  4. Nurture Your Spirituality
  5. Move Your Body
  6. Laugh Big
  7. Do Something Nice for Someone Else
  8. Make More Money Than Your Peers
  9. Seek Positive Emotion as a Path to Success
  10. Identify With Your Heritage
  11. Use a Happy Memory as a Guide
  12. Play the Part of an Optimist
  13. Try New Things
  14. Tell Your Story to Someone
  15. Balance Work and Home
  16. Be Like the Danes: Keep Expectations Realistic
  17. Make Time
  18. Visualize Happiness
  19. Smile
  20. Marry Happy
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3 Easy Ways To Shift Negative Thoughts

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The human mind is constantly thinking, after all that’s its job! But unfortunately for most people, the majority of their thoughts are negative and dis-empowering ones‼

The good news is that each of us has the power and control to choose our thoughts! But to do that we first have to be aware of them!

The fastest way to become aware of your thoughts is to pay attention to your feelings. Your feelings are the best indicators in terms of what you’re thinking… So if you’re feeling bad, sad, depressed, angry, anxious, guilty, ashamed, overwhelmed, etc., chances are you are having negative/dis-empowering thoughts!

As soon as you become aware of your negative thoughts,  choose one these three easy techniques to shift them immediately:

1. Replace the negative  thought with its exact opposite. Here are some examples:

  • “I never have enough money for anything” ==> “I always have enough money for the things I want and need”
  • “I don’t deserve it” ==> “I absolutely deserve it”
  • “I never get what I want” ==> “I always get what I want”
  • “nobody likes me” ==> “everybody likes me”

2. Dismiss it – As soon as you become aware of the thought, say to yourself “I’m just having a negative thought” and release it. Stop dwelling on it, justifying it, reasoning with it, or reacting to it …  Just keep dismissing it until it’s gone!

3. Write it down and throw it away – Simply write down your negative thought on a piece of paper, crumble it, and throw it away. If you think another negative thought or the same one, keep doing this until your thoughts become positive!

Start living your best life by taking responsibility for it! Consciously choose thoughts that empower you, and move forward towards creating the things you want!

With much love and appreciation ~ Farah

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The Guide To Being Happy!

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Here are 4 simple things I do everyday that make me happy:

  1. I spend  10-20 minutes each morning in a quiet place meditating
  2. I do simple things throughout the day that I enjoy:
    • Listen to music
    • Listen/read inspirational material
    • Watch/read things that make you laugh
    • Do some kind of physical activity (go for a walk, going to the gym, take Zumba/U-Jam classes,  yoga, etc.)
  3. I consciously smile at everything and everyone
  4. I appreciate and give thanks for everything that happened that day

Whether you’re going through challenging life transitions or midlife changes, or want to make a major transformation in your life,  start making  a conscious choice to feel happy everyday!

Remember, true happiness is an inside job and has very little to do with what’s going on on the outside… So just smile, and feel happy that everything  is always working out perfectly!

With much love and appreciation

Farah

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Manifesting Prosperity & Abundance

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I absolutely love this video! Whether you’re going through a challenging life transition or midlife change, or want to make a major transformation in your finances, watch this video every morning for the next 30 days! Start living your best life by focusing only on what you want to have and create, and know that everything you want is already here for you to claim!

With much love and appreciation ~ Farah

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Happiness

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Whether you’re going through challenging life transitions or midlife changes; or want to make major transformations in your career, relationship, health, or life direction; or you just want to take your life to the next level; find things in your life right now that make you HAPPY… Start living your best life by focusing on what you want to have and create, and be happy with what you have in this moment!

With much love and appreciation ~ Farah

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